In this episode we discuss self sabotaging in relationships, especially cheating, using the Katlego Maboe incident as an example. We're guided by an article describing the 10 Ways That Men Self Sabotage Relationships. We get into the circumstances that create people who make bad decisions and on the importance of good decision making especially when others such as children and partners are involved. In which of the 10 ways have you sabotaged your relationship/s? How do we see it for what it is? And most importantly how do we heal, so that as a society we produce healthy individuals who get involved in and maintain healthy relationships that build everyone involved, instead of breaking us down to our current state?